Behavior Focus

“Come here.”

The adult repeats the instruction and focuses mainly on whether the child complies.

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Moment Focus

What is this moment for?

• Come for a hug (social interaction)

• Come for icecream  (highly preferred activity)

• Come for bath time  (non-preferred activity)

 

The focus shifts from “compliance” to helping the child participate within a meaningful moment.

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Parent Reflection

What can I do to help my child move into this moment successfully?

• prepare the transition

• increase predictability

• support regulation

• create motivation and connection

• guide participation

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What is this moment FOR?
Values in the moment. Habits in the making.